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i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and whne hes with me he can be nice he can be mean he does buy me things and takes me out. But he refuses to drink when I'm there but he'll go out to parties with his freinds when my friends are there and drink with them! It's just wierd hes started lying to me about my friends being there and they post pictures I know they are there! I don't mind him having a night with his friends but hes out drinking with my friends he never invites me and he refuses to drink when I'm there. Why? Is he hiding something. Next weekend we are going out with his freinds from work but hes willing to drink then? Its just i get anoyed when he goes out partying with my friends he never invites me and it isolates me i'm not bothered that my friends are girls but I am bothered that hes drinking and having a laugh with them and he doesnt with me. He says I always get mad but he lies to me how can I trust him when he lies to me and he isolates ,e from his friends. I'd be happy for him to have a lads night but if other couples are going why can't I come. I've not spoken to him since last night when he went out he says I'm in the wrong for being upset by that but I know I'm not its wierd him going out drinking with MY friends like wtf. Ant advice on what to do here? (link)
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One thing to consider is that maybe he only drinks to please his friends. Maybe he prefers not to drink, but when he is around them he feels pressured. Maybe with you he prefers to chill without alcohol and just relax or be romantic.
But more likely, it sounds as though he is flirting around with other girls behind your back. He probably doesn't want you to know about this because he knows it would make you upset.
He is acting inappropriately. You should insist on him inviting you if other girls are there. Like you said, a guys night is fine, but if other girls are there he should want you there too! Do not let this go. He needs to understand that what he is doing is hurting you.
It's guys like this that made me want to take up karate.
Miss Piggy
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Rating: 5
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thankyou for your lovely feedback your right it was hurting me and I didn't let it go in the end he promise to stop being so self centered and to invite me next time!
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