hi everyone! Welcome to my advice column. Im KIERA (kee-er-rah) im 19 years old who lives in Newark Nj ( I hate it here)from NY ( or as i love to say)Highschool graduate with a passion for fashion, writing, and of course ADVICE ..I am an inspiring Life Coach, and here to be for you all as well as a ALL around friend. PLEASE feel free to ask me ANYTHING including personal questions about myself or about you,including SEX RELATED, FAMILY ISSUES, FRIEND ADVICE, MENTAL HEALTH, PREGNANCY, DEATH, EDUCATION AND OR JOBS... Im open to everything!!!Im here for YOU and to share my experiences and words of words and courage with you. With Kisses, Kiera XOXOXO
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Ok so i need advice so me and my gf been together for bout 3 years well on and off and we have a beautiful 2 year old son i love him to death well me and gf have talked about getting married and etc.. but i feel da same way but idk like we argue a hell of alot and she dont trust me and i dont trust her but its not really dat i recently talked to my ex that i dated in 2009 to 2011 and we was sooo in love but it was long distance so we never seen each other in person but we video chatted all da time so now that i got a good job and able to pay for da trip see her now and idk what to to be honest she was da only girl i ever trusted and she knew better den anybody and we had so much in common but now all i think about is what if i had seen her just once in person how wud it been like wen i talked to her tonight we both just lit up and just talked bout how we used to be and we broke up cause we was far away but i wanna know if i should go or not like i know if i tell my gf she just gonna get emotional but i just wanr this thought to be gone out my head please help (link)
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If you really love and care about your current gf, then try to make THAT relationship work first.. try to trust each other and express how you feel about getting married etc. As far as the EX goes.. she\'s an EX for a reason even though it was because it was long distance it wasnt meant to last, and I get it you have thoughts of what if\'s but look at it this way IF you and your EX was to work out like you say you would not have your 3 year old son, so i think it is not so good to dwell on the past however if you speak to your GF and tell her that you simply want to just meet this girl then go from there. DO NOT do anything behind your GF back that can possibly hurt your relationship. GOOD LUCK...with Kisses, KIERA xoxox
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Thank u for da advice i was wondering since u gave good advice cud u add me on fb u know just in case i need anymore i pretty much dont have no.else to talk to about this
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