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So, this weekend just gone I had sex with a guy. Him and his girlfriend were split up at the time and he said they weren't getting back together so I didn't see much of a problem. But the next day he said they sorted things out but he didn't tell her about me and him.
I'm really not comfortable about this as I'm friends with alot of her friends so I'm gunna see her about alot and I hate keeping secrets and lying.
I've tried persuading him, but said I won't say a word until he says something to her 'cause she should really hear it from him not me or someone else. But this also means I can't talk to any of my friends about it, which sucks.
He won't tell her though as she has alot of family problems at the moment and doesn't think she'd be able to handle it and isn't sure what she'd do (guessing he means self harm etc).
Some sort of help would be great as I'm really not keen on this situation and can't chat to anyone! Thank you! (link)
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First, he sounds like a fucking idiot.
How the hell are you going to break up with someone and then go fuck someone else? That\'s pure stupidity. And trust me, he won\'t tell her.
If I were you, I\'d look past all her life problems at the moment, because telling her would be the RIGHT thing to do. I mean, if you was in her shoes, wouldn\'t you want someone to tell you?
The longer you wait to tell her and the day you or him tell her, it\'ll hurt her even more. Trust.
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Completely agree, I'd want to know if I were her.
Exactly what I said to him, but I really don't feel like I should be the one to say if you get me? Plus I wouldn't be surprised if it pushed her over the edge :/
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