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Q: I am getting married next year. I have a big family and all my cousins are like siblings to me. Two of my cousins are bridesmaids and I have three younger cousins who I have asked to be my junior bridesmaids. My fiance has a smaller family and some of his family is not close with him. There are 6 nieces on his side that I have chosen to not be in the wedding. They are all girls and I am not close to them whatsoever. Although I feel bad..I feel like this is my day and I should choose what I want. My fiance understood but is still a little unsure of how this might play out. I am worried about how his family may react. We have already had some drama come from his side because of an engagement party and they have yet to apologize which is very upsetting to me. Should I speak to his family about their presence in the wedding or should I just wait until the day of the wedding for them to find out? I don't want drama and if they cause drama on my day I'm going to be extremely livid.
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I would have your fiance speak to his family that is coming first, and put the past behind you on your big day because a bride DOES NOT need to be stressing the small things on her day. I am not saying his family is a small thing but drama is, but like i said have him speak with his family about drama and what not at the wedding if they keep running there mouth or keep the drama coming after he has spoken to them, more times than not they will start drama on the day of the wedding. I have a horrifying monster in law lol so i feel your pain and i know the hard decisions your facing. Good luck!
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