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hello everyone. I'm 15 female. Is there something wrong with me coz nobody had ever courted me so far. Like nobody since ever. I've had no boyfriend. I live in a city, im active in community and popular in our school.
Uhmm yeh I'm boyish type but I'm girly still. I play with guys on school and talked with guys always. Guys say that I talk like them and whilst girls on the other hand say that im still even girly. I have lots of crush in school and some of them know that I like them but they never courted me. Is there wrong with me? Coz I want to get a boyfriend. Thank you. (link)
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I used to think there was something wrong with me sometimes. I used to look around and see that everyone was either in a relationship or had a crush on someone who actually liked them back. I'm going to list off a few scenarios why you may be in the situation you're in.
1. Your personality. Now I'm not saying you have a bad one but that could be the case. Or you could have a very dominant personality which a lot of guys get intimidated by. It's not a bad thing to be more dominating as a girl, I know the feeling of having such a personality. I hope you generally are a nice person, and a bad personality isn't ruining your chances of a boyfriend.
2. Boys are weird. A lot of boys don't show their feelings in the way that girls do, so there may be someone with a crush on you but you won't know. And sometimes as the most unexpected times they let you know.
3. You're "one of the guys". I know how it feels to be a tom boy. When I was younger and even now, I love to play sports with guys, hang with them etc. When that happens a lot of times they see you as one of the guys and it would be weird to date "one of the guys" if you understand what I'm getting at. It's like being friend zoned for us tom boys.
4. Just be patient. I know sometimes being single isn't the best feeling but trying to force something will be worse than having no one in the long run.
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Thank you. All of those were so much right. Yes I'm a bisexual but I'm totally girl with my friends and I'm totally boyish whilst I'm with guys.
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