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Hello all. I am a 36 year old married mother of three boys. I have my degree in Forensic psychology and business management- human resources, I work in social services while juggling my three children and a marriage. When I originally joined this community I was excited to get back into what I love and that is helping people through listening, understanding, and guidance. However I quickly found that through my desire to help others, others are helping me. I have found my advice column beyond rewarding. I have found myself getting extremely passionate about each and every question that I read and respond to. The more the questions the greater the connection I have found between people of all walks of life, ages groups, races, gender, and religion. What I have found to be our greatest bind is love. Love for others and the love of being loved.

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does an ipill cause delay in periods ??i had anal sex for the first time 4 months back . i got afraid and took emergency contraceptive pill. the next month i got my periods on time . but after that month i dint get periods till now . it has been 3 months since i got my periods . in these 3 months i had anal sex thrice with my bf and we used a lubricant kind of thing to make things easier and bcoz of that his dick slipped a few times and touched my vagina with a little amount of pre ejaculation on it . can the sperms in that pre ejaculatory fluid get into my vagina bcoz of the lubricant ? he dint ejaculate in me . i took home pregnancy tests many times but the result is always negative . are there any chances of me getting pergnant ?? how many days can the sperm live inside a girls body ?? does the pill cause delay in periods ?? plz ans me . i am tensed .

Sperm can live around 5 days inside. The pill can and has caused quite a delay for me in the past. I believe you are speaking of the morning after pill. If so that pill is like taking an incredible amount of regular birth control pill all at once. It is very effective but can throw your cycle way off. While there is a slim chance of pregnancy with what you described it's really unlikely. Especially if you took the morning after pill with in 5 days and having taken it the next day or within 3 days I would feel comfortable in saying you are not pregnant. If you took a pregnancy test 2 weeks after having sex and it was negative then you are good. However, dont get one of those dollar tests they never showed positive for me although I was pregnant. You should look into getting the mirena iud. I have tried the pull out method, pills, condoms, and mirena was the only thing that worked. I have had no periods, no cramps, no problems, and no pregnancy after getting pregnant on the pill. You will feel so much better more s having to stress every time you have sex. Although anal sex would work as you know it's just too easy to slip right out into your vagina. If I were you I would relax because I highly doubt you are pregnant although there is a slight chance.

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(Rating: 5) thanks for making it clear but not making me feel dumb. :)
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