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I need advice on a very important subject. When is the right time to have sex? All I hear is "I remember prom night" and all these stories from people's collage years. I'm confused about when it would be the right time. I don't want to make any rash judgements or mistakes which I will regret later on. Thanks for reading.
P.s. I'm fourteen and female and know now is not the right time for that relationship, though I would like to know when. (link)
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Very good question.
There's not set time to have sex. Some people do it earlier and some do it later. The important thing to remember is that people (especially teenagers) say a lot of things to draw attention to themselves. Don't listen to them, ignore them, as whatever they say about sex is complete rubbish.
You're very right saying that you still have time for a relationship. Remember there's no rush (it's not a race). You sound like a clever girl so I'm sure that you'll make the right decision but there's one thing that I want to mention to you. Sex is great when with a partner that really cares about you-someone that you know is the 'real deal'. Just remember you're the one in control (you can always say no and the person that you're with if he loves you will wait for you) so don't feel pressured into having sex because others have and you haven't. Plus sex has its consequences (children+diseases) so it needs to be a well thought out decision.
If you do decide to have sex, just remember protection is key.
Hope I helped. Remember you can be a virgin only once. Don't lose it fast. Many girls do and then they regret it (they want it back) but it's no longer possible. Don't be one of them.
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