Hey its Kitchel17, just let me know what I can do for you. Either is love, freinds, family, work etc lay it on me I'll try to help you out. We've all been through it but it still helps to have someone and that someone is hopefully me lol. All questions are welcome don't be shy, I'll go easy :D
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So a bunch of the guys in my middle school (we're all in 8th grade) keep calliing me a slut for the clothes I wear. I've only even gone out with a guy in 6th grade, and I've never even held hands with any boy! But when I call them out on it and tell them to stop, they say I'm always acting b-tchy like this and I don't know how to handle a joke, and that O'm too ugly to be a whore anyway, or 'Thats why you don't have a boyfriend'. It just really pisses me off. additional info- 13, female: I have depression, and my three best friends are all in relationships (two are guys, they both call me a slut, too). and we went out one weekend all as friends (no boyfriends or girlfriends) and the other day I said, 'we should all do that again sometime!' And they laughed at me and said, 'yeah right! we don't want to hang out with you! we're replacing you with -one of the guy's girlfriends'. It just makes me very sad, and I want to kill myself a lot because of this. :( how do I tell them to stop? (link)
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Hey there!
First, please i beg you don't hurt yourself over this. I'm way out of the middle school, but let me tell you 8th grades guys are bunch immature idiots. I know its hard at your age, but don't listen to them. Do you believe your slut? Obviously you don't. THAT'S the truth, and when they say stuff like that roll your eyes and walk away. They want you to confront them, but if you walk away they don't have any power, now do they? Also, I advise you talk to your school counselor on your depression, or some authoritative figure about this. For your best friends, maybe consider hanging out with different people for awhile, and maybe focus on yourself a little bit. Real friends shouldn't put you down like that. This won't necessarily stop them, but it can maybe help you deal with this situation. I know it sucks, but you can get through this, I know you can. I hope this help. If you need any more advice, please don't be afraid to ask and if these things keep going on, please let someone know! Good luck, i'm rotting for you.!
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You are very helpful thank you! It is scary cause I feel like I will never have friends again if I say something but you give me courage to try!
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