Seriously, I have been through it all. You name it, I've been there, done that, seen those things... I've always been told I'm a good listener, and have always been told I'm a great friend who gives amazing advice. I don't know how true that is, I mean after all, I'm no doctor or therapist. But I am caring, and I do want to help. Maybe that's all that really matters. But most importantly: I will not judge you! You are my equal here!
Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you. - Deuteronomy 31:6
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ok so i became friends with this guy a few weeks ago before school started. I sort of admitted to myself Thursday/Friday that i liked him. I think he was flirting with me today, I'm not sure.
So i was on my way to 3rd period (music) when i felt someone shove my backpack not in a rude way but like a "I want your attention!" sort of way. i turned around and saw him, he smiled/waved and took a different route to the same class. and he poked me a few times.
But today at lunch i was walking with him to lunch and we sat down with out friends. I left for a little bit with a girl friend to talk and came back and he was gone. I asked his friend where he went and he said he thought my crush went to go find us. I was sitting down and felt a pair of hands around my waist and squeeze gently. Causing me to squeak. I turned around and he was laughing/smiling at me. He was standing next to the group but next to me more particularlly.
So does he like me? Or flirting? I don't know, Advice would be appreciated! (link)
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Well, it seems like both! He's definitely flirting with you, and while some guys can't help but to flirt with every girl, it sounds like this one has it out for you. ;) As long as you don't see him doing those things with every girl in the area, I think it's safe to say he's diggin' ya'!
Ahh, I remember those days. What a happy feeling you have, I'm sure. :) Be smart though. If you get into a relationship with a boy, it's important not to forget your girlfriends or your school work. And unless you're married and wanting children, you shouldn't be sleeping together.
I've been around the block a time or two, so I'm going to tell you (and you won't want to hear this) high school relationships, while they may feel like the best thing ever and you may think you'll graduate together and get married and have this grand amazing life together, and that's fine, just remember, there's only like a 2% chance that will actually happen.
So like I said, focus on things that will always matter; your friends, your grades, and while it's okay to have a boyfriend, don't let him push you into anything you might regret. Don't lose yourself while getting sucked into the crazy emotions of first loves, is what I'm trying to say. :)
May God bless you, your school work and help you to keep your head on straight while boys are making it dizzy. :P
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Thank so much, and God bless you too :)
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