Ever since I was little, I always loved talking to my family about their problems. I love being able to help people. I maybe young but I am very good at giving advice on Love life. I am very mature for my 14 years of age and I want to help people with their questions and problems. SO if you have a question, don't hesitate to ask because of my age
I am also a huge Band Geek/Color Guard person, and I love music and writing. So if you also have questions on those I could help you out!
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I'm 25 and just found out I'm pregnant... I have a huge situation here and it will be extremely easy to judge and say cruel things so if you are that type of person, leave now. I made mistakes and am ready to deal with the consequences but that doesn't mean that I am not a human being who needs help. So those of you who are real and really want to help and give advice that isn't rude, please help me.
The father of my child is married and I doubt he will be involved in any way other than child support which he has already agreed to... which is fine. I can't really blame him... his wife is aware and wants him to ditch us... again, can't really blame him.
I want to keep this baby so much. I already love it and I know I would be a good mom but at the same time I feel like the situation is too cruel to bring a child into. I know a LOT of single moms who do it alone and are great but given the circumstances... and where I don't have any schooling after high school... would it be better to place the baby for adoption? I already know how the adoption process works... I am extremely familiar with it, it's just a matter of if it's right for me and the baby.
Positive, helpful advice only please and as much as possible. 5 (link)
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Ok so you are 25 now and pregnant. You are out of high school so I guess you live alone? And you must have a job, I'm guessing? You love your unborn child alreayd (I find that really sweet:D) If you feel like you can support the child, and if you want to keep it, DO IT! Kepp your baby if you are finacially stable. You could also always ask your parents for help and advice. I hope this helped, and I wish you and your unborn child luck :)
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Aww I like you!!! Thank you so much for the advice, encouragement and for being sweet.
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