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Hi Im 18 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year our anniversary is next month. we get along just fine and haven't had sex, we respect each other about anything and just last weekend my boyfriend and were at my house my parents were gone and he came over i played guitar in front of him for a while then we ended up making out but as we started making out, all of a sudden I feel his hand going under my shirt
Trying to feel my breasts. It made me feel good but at the same time I felt like its bad I don't know if I should've said something I mean afterwards he asked me if it was ok with me and also said he wasn't ready for sex but he respects me. I don't know what to think but I love him (link)
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First of all, I commend you on the fact that you've been with him for a year already and have refrained from anything close to sex! I'm 18 myself, and I know how hard it is to refrain from the pressures of sexual intimacy. It's great to hear that people still have self respect & control :-)
As far as my advice goes, it's your body, and you decide what a guy can and can't do. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you enjoying being touched intimately by the man you love most, and it seems like he truly respects you. If you felt uncomfortable, make sure he knows your boundries as well as you do. If he is a good guy, he will NOT leave you because you don't feel ready yet. Just know that you did nothing wrong, and neither did he. You guys were just exploring becoming intimate, and that is just human nature.
Hope this helps, and I hope your relationship keeps staying strong!
~Miss Holly~
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