Member Since: June 3, 2013
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Last Update: June 3, 2013
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Hi guys, if you must know i'm 18. The problem is, i'm in a downward spiral so yes, i need some advice. I know people out there face tougher challenges, but i know my life will get worse too if i don't face 'em. I'm starting to cling onto people to get happiness and my self-esteem is breaking down. It's not even there anymore ! I have a wide family but not all of them can be trusted. Not all. I have lots of friends but hey, i could even count with my fingers the ones who're really true. I'm facing rejection by the ones i would sactifice for. I don't really need guys in my life but i do really love one guy who seems to.. I don't know. We're no longer close and i break down every night missing him. Anyhow, I could no longer stress out due to the fact that i'm beginning to have detrimental heart problems because of the problems i'm facing and i admit my wrongdoings are involved too. I just need an advice on how to be wise and independent in life. I still believethat i can be a good person too, i just don't want to give up. Please help me, i can't go on feeling so messed up anymore. Thanks guys. (link)
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My advice, speaking from experience, have a SHIT TON of fun.
Go out, hit the clubs, party, shake hands and wave to people you've never met before in you're life.
be "That outgoing person" it may be a mask, but, that mask will melt into you. Like me, I was down to the point of secretly attempting suicide and some awful drug abuse, but, I quite the b.s, and became excessively friendly, I go with the crowd, and please the crowd, take outrageous dares, it'll be quite awesome.
As for the guy, I had a similar issue, my advice on that is: Give him an ultimatum, and don't feel bad if it goes south, intend it to go south, act as if his holding you back from your gorgeous plan B, if you just keep living crazily, day by day, in a seemingly unending search for amusement, you'll get past it.
Oh, and btw, Don't stay up late, in the dark, by yourself, unless you're playing videogames, you own thoughts fuck you up, Get some sleep
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Well yeah hey, maybe it's the fun of life which i'm lacking of now huh. Anyway thanks for the advice, and i'll try my best to be that outgoing ! Thanks again, thanks.
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