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ok so i am a 16 year old girl and really bi-curious? I think i like guys but if i get into a relationship i end it too quickly because it doesnt feel right when i am with a guy. but I'll look at a guy and say he's hot but it ends there. as with girls though i've never had a crush on a girl but i can see myself in a relationship with one (a girl in general). i am just so confused, i don't think there is anything wrong with being gay but i am afraid that if i am that I'll loose friends and be judged harshly. i know my family will accept but i am still scared. (link)
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I myself am bisexual. I started only curious and i did question myself quite a bit, but it felt natural to find both sexes appealing and i embraced it. Most of my friends are bisexual, but the ones who arent are still accepting and actually have probably forgotten. If you talk to your friends about it, im sure they'll be very accepting, and you may even learn that they're bi curious/bisexual. As for being judged, it will happen. Its happened several times to me allready, especialy since i moved a whole state away from everyone i know. But dont let it get to you too much. Ive actualy learned that more people are bisexual/gay/lesbian than straight. Its not as uncommon as you think. Scientific studies show that only one species on earth is homophobic and thats the human race. So dont be too afraid. I told my family pretty quickly. I was a little afraid, but they were very accepting. Keeping your feelings bottled up too long can actually cause stress, but take your time and tell them when it feels right. I know im two years younger than you, but I also have three years experience (lol). I hope you find this helpful :)
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