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Ok so 13 f and dont get me wrong here because people my age where i live are super mature and have good relationships even at this age so do not judge. Ive liked this guy named sam (12m) since the beginning on summer. He and i have had our ups and downs and in august we just stopped talking for no reason. Then in october he asked me to hang out with him and another of his friends and i brought one of my friends. We acted as a couple and hugged and held hands ect. The next day we also hung out again at his house while his parents were working and watched a movie and he put his arm around me. After that weekend of october 5, we stopped talking again for no reason. On december 24th, i got a bunch of questions about him on my qooh.me wall. Then about 2 min after i answered the last one, sam messaged me on facebook. I asked him a question and said " we havent talked since october. Why all of a sudden have u decided to msg me?" he answered and said that he had no reason to stop talking to me. Then after about a week of flirting through text but not talking in person, we stopped talking yet again. Then at the end of january, i founs out that he had a girlfriend. I have notjing against her bc shes suh a nice girl and shes so lucky to be with him but i was kinda hurt. All of our flirting and all oof the thought about him and i was gone and i felt nothing for him anymore. I started cutting because my life had gone downhill in february. I cut and cut and cut. Only 2 of my best friends knew i cut and tried to stop me but i was in a bad stage of depresion. I got over my depression in march and yesterday sam put a status on fb for tbhs. I liked it to see what he would say. He told me that weve been through so much and he misses talking to me and that he really did want to ask me out at one point because he used to love me as a friend and like like me too. He said that he wants us to talk more because he has missed the part of his life he had thrown away. After readig that tbh, i felt numb. I didnt know wbat to say because it brought me to tears. Im starting to care alot for him now and i really like him and i have all along. It hurts me to know that hes dating a great girl but i still really like him and i never stopped liking him. He left for myrtle beach yesterday and ive been trying to txt him but i cant bring myself to doing so. Please help me! All i want is input on all of this and some advice on what to say. Should i do a tbh status and hope that he likes it? (link)
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Hi there!!!
"tbh" i think you are just in love with the idea of being in love.
seriously, IF you do get together, wont you have doubts and get sick of when he pulls again the "he is not talking again" and "he has a girlfriend" thing to you? I mean its all about TRUST in relationships. I find it hard to find that in you because i "think" that this guy wants the best of both worlds, a girlfriend and the flirting with you. Im sure he is nice and all, but he should be a whole lot nicer to treat you as special as if you are the most precious thing in the world, not just pop up when he wants to...
You are still young, you will get to meet other guys, dont waste your time on this one or just be friends, but i am telling you, if you do get together you will just be miserable thinking at the back of your mind every single moment if this guy is being truthful with you or if he will cheat on you (because you know that he already did and is capable to treating you again as bad)
Sorry for being blunt and all.. but this is just what i feel...
I know it sucks but life goes on and there is a perfect guy made for you- as you are also the perfect girl made for him.. you will both find each other- i just feel its not this one.
Pray and you will be guided accordingly.
Good luck and dont worry to much, focus on school and hobbies and other friends... be the best you can be.. you will be alright! Let this one regret NOT HAVING you because you definitely deserve someone better!
:)
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Thanks for your input but i honestly didnt listen to a word u said. I know your just trying to express yourself ect but sam isnt the type of guy your taking him as. Hes never cheated on anyone. Him and i are great friends now.
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