Member Since: November 22, 2012
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Last Update: November 23, 2012
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Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months and we're in the 8th grade. We've been having trouble with coming up with open-ended questions and good conversation starters. The other day, we were walking outside after school and I said guess what and he said what and I said u now have a free ticket to ask me anything and he said I think I'll hold my ticket.. ? What did he mean by that? Does he not have feelings for me anymore? Should I dump him? (link)
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That means you put him on the spot and his mind blanked, so he's going to 'spend his ticket' when he thinks of something. Keep in mind, you can pretty much guarantee he wants to explore your life, and giving him that ticket is pretty much a blank check to do just that. There are a million questions he wants to ask (most of them dirty) but he has to gauge which questions will be offensive to you and which ones won't, and how to phrase those questions. Asking "Who have you cheated on me with?" is a VERY different question than "Would you ever cheat on me?"
I don't understand why you would even think to ask the 'should I dump him' question unless you were already looking for an excuse to do so, or he really scared you by not asking you a question. If you are looking for an excuse to dump him, just do so instead of dragging it out. If you're scared by his apparent lack of interest in asking a question, don't worry, deciding which question he wants to ask you is in the forefront of his mind.
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Rating: 5
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I know I was just being selfish and stupid. Thank you for telling me like it is but being nice about it! I was just hormonal i think! (I didn't dump him btw)
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