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This feels weird but, I'm a senior in high school, male/17. And lately I've been having this thing for the younger girls at school, like 14 & 15. There's one I know and I like her, the ones I know seem a lot nicer than some of the senior girls I know. My senior class is kind of small, and most of us know eachother. The girl I like, (we're not that close) when I'm with her I feel like the people around me are looking at me like I'm crazy. This junior kid I know told me to stop trying to go out with freshmen. Our age gap is under 3 years to be exact. My close friends, like 3 of them, don't see anything wrong with it. And why is it that when the guy is younger, people don't say anything. My friend was once with an older senior girl who had to do a 5th year. And I had a friend who was like 15 and with a college girl. Idk. Should I just avoid it? Is it really that bad? I'm starting to like her, what can I do. I don't want people I know thinking that I'm weird/creepy. (link)
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You like who you like... as you get older, age will matter less and less... but those high school years are kinda whack. Everyone is progressing at different rates and things... it's just how it goes.
So are you weird? No, not really, but you should consider that a 14 or 15 year old probably isn't where you are sexually, and you're going to have to respect that... because being that guy that pressured them into something really makes you a douche for the rest of time.
You should also realize that any relationship you start with younger girls will not last. It's just not going to. You'll graduate, they'll find someone still in school with with and they won't give a damn about you anymore. It's high school girl thing.
So it's whatever. You like her, cool... I don't see much of a problem. It's very possible, since girls mature faster than guys, mentally, that you're both even on the same level. Enjoy it, man. Just don't expect her to be your wife one day or something.
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