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hi.me and my boyfnd are luvrs since 4 years.we are sinceare and he wants to marry me also at first.but the problem came between us because of one girl,and that girl is his close fnd.she is his fnd since 4yrs only,she too have a boyfnd atfirst but later she gets jealous of me and gets attracted by my boyfnd.she left her boyfnd and started luving my boyfnd,she proposed to my boyfnd,at first he refused but later she begged him no need to marry but please love me untill your marraige and sleep with me.my boyfnd refused to sleep but agreed to love,but he refused to leave me,bcoz he loves me so much than her at first

Wow this must be very hard for you , I know . To me , yes it's that girl who ruined the relationship first but your man should've been loyal to you as much as you are to him ! To be honest , that girl would do anything to be your boyfriend's girl , she wouldn't give up but just think positively . Maybe that girl has a different , sad story in her life or she's just lonely or maybe her family doesn't give her enough attention , and somehow she chose your boyfriend so that maybe she could be happier . However , the victim is you and it's not fair that your boyfriend says he's not happy with you . Look , I don't know how to express my feelings in words but it's time for you to move on . Imagine the heartache you're gonna face if he stays longer with her . Anything can happen , hearts can change so that's why you need to prepare yourself now for the worst . I know you do love him , but if he's not appreciating and treating you right , then he doesn't deserve you ! To me , you need to leave him . Let him go . If he truly loves you , nothing will make him leave but if he doesn't care about your feelings anymore , nothing can make him stay . Let both of them go , I know my advice might be stupid but to me , this is the way . You've been sad for a while , so do still want to ? Especially with that girl around , it's gonna be hard to deal with . The thing is , what goes around comes around , no doubt about that so no matter how she hates you , just be nice to everyone . That's the best solution trust me . If someone makes you sad , don't worry . He or she will face the same thing too so don't hate anyone and keep your head up ! Try talking to your guy and ask him for honest answers . His answer will let you know whether it's still worth it to be with him or not . Be nice to people , but if they start to overlook you , then stand up . Defend yourself because you've the right and about that girl , let her be that way . She will never change plus if you fight with her , it'll be humiliating so just maintain your class . Show that you're tough and no one can step on you . Be smart and wise , don't be afraid . Ask your man for the real answer . I'm so sorry but let him tell you painful truth rather than comforting you with sweet lies .

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(Rating: 1) but i am not ready to leave him.he is everything.plz suggesst me how to attract him and how to get back him
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