I have dealt with many emotional and psychological issues both personally and in my career. I've gone thru emotional, verbal and sexual abuse, severe depression, therapy, emotional hospitalization, sexual addiction diagnosis, divorce and suicidal ideations. So I've been there, I'm a healthy person now and in a healthy relationship. But I've definately learned from the School of Experience and I'd love to be able to help others with the knowledge that all that has brought me. I'm not judgemental but I will be very frank if with my OPINIONS.
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Sorry didn't know in what category to put this.well I'm 12 and I do modeling and this 16 year old girl doesn't it with me. I really like this guy and he's dating this 16 year old girl and me and her fight a lot and well yeah. Anyway that's not the point she's my role model and I want to be exactly like her!she dies her hair a lot but I'm not allowed she has the best body ever! She takes laxitives tho should I take that or is there any other ways to get a body like that?(I'm not fat I have a nice body but I want her body!)I'm even trying to talk and act like her! This isn't just to get the guy its also because I think if I'm more like her then maybe me and her can talk and stuff and then she won't hate me:( we used to talk but then I lied to her and then she got worried and told on and stuff but this was when I was 10/11 anyway how can I be more like her? Please don't just say be yourself I really need advice here! She's actually a brat but still and she says sorry like soraay and ok like okaay and stuff and yeah (link)
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Honey, it's normal to have someone a few years older than you that you look up to and sort of idolize. Her body is more mature than yours and even if you took laxatives (which is very stupid and will cause you serious medical problems if done too extremely) you couldn't have the same figure as she does. You are 12, your body has baby fat still stored for your maturation and you are just beginning to go thru puberty so your breasts and hips wouldn't be proportioned like hers either. If you are pretty enough to model, I'd say there's a ton of girls your own age who'd love to look just exactly like you do right now. You are seeking her approval because she is someone you look up to and idolize but because she is older than you she probably just sees you as a sweet, pretty, 12 year old and her focus is on impressing boys and outdoing girls her own age. I PROMISE YOU, THERE IS SOMEONE THAT SHE LOOKS/LOOKED UP TO JUST LIKE YOU LOOK AT HER. AND WHEN YOU GET HER AGE, THERE'LL BE A 12 YEAR OLD LOOKING AT YOU THE SAME WAY, THERE'S MANY 8,9,10 AND 11 YEAR OLDS WHO DO ALREADY.
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Thanks and I just wanted to put there where you talked about puberty*i developed early and my boobs are actually a nice size like I love them not to sound vain or anything but like I've gotton everything in puberty already*and I'm not sure about people wanting to be like me I don't have a nice nose
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