I have dealt with many emotional and psychological issues both personally and in my career. I've gone thru emotional, verbal and sexual abuse, severe depression, therapy, emotional hospitalization, sexual addiction diagnosis, divorce and suicidal ideations. So I've been there, I'm a healthy person now and in a healthy relationship. But I've definately learned from the School of Experience and I'd love to be able to help others with the knowledge that all that has brought me. I'm not judgemental but I will be very frank if with my OPINIONS.
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I like this guy in my class, and I think he likes me too. All the signs are there; he talks to me a lot, he comes over to me first when he has a question about something, he sits next to me whenever he can, etc.
So, my question is - what should I do to show him that I like him too? Note - I've had problems in the past with being TOO obvious, & not just to the guy, the whole class. This time (after practicing with a "crush" on some jerk in my class, just to see if I could be less obvious --- an incredible success by the way) I'm doing a pretty good job at making it very subtle, yet visible, & I don't want to break my streak.
So I want to know if anyone out there has a strategy or something that would help me with this. My goal is to show him that I like him, maybe even flirt a bit, & not to get him to be freaked out and run away, like the other guys I scared away...
Thanks to everyone who answers in advance! & I hope you have an amazing day! :) (link)
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ABSOLUTE BEST STRATEGY..... Limit the amount of time you spend in conversation with him at every encounter but say something that'll make him think of you later in the day. You could for example compliment his eyes or hair or clothes in a very matter of fact way then say, excuse me I have to go meet with my friend such and such. Next time you talk to him talk about how he always makes you laugh and he's incredible hilarious but then excuse yourself because you have something you must take care of. You see what I'm doing there? Make the conversation totally about him, girls are so into themselves and it's a nice change for a guy for the girl to SEE them, but then nothing is more impressive to a guy then for a girl to have her own life and to be able to keep herself intertained and have fun so immediately making yourself unavailable is a turn on to them and trust me... he'll be thinking of your sweet face later on in the day.
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You just made my day. Oh my gosh thank you! That is a very good strategy! Oh I can't wait to try it lol
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