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I am 16, i used to be a funny, cool guy that everyone liked. i started getting made fun of alot back when i was like 13 and 14, and it really messed me up. I care so much about what someone is gonna say if i say something funny or what comment i made. I have become so insecure, and i really have lost my old personality. Iv never felt shy in group situations , but after getting fucked with so much i feel super vulnerable to everything someone says to me. Now there are times when my outgoing,confident, fun personality comes out, and i seriously love it. But after 10- 15 minutes, i start thinking too much and start supressing my personality again, leading to insecurity and depression. If anyone knows any type of guide or hypnosis or whatever, im willing to try it. But im just tired of this and i want to feel free and open again, I feel locked inside of my mind (link)
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Ok I might be a girl but I have been there. Trust me you need to fake it until you make it. And trust me I get made fun of a lot I laugh it off. You need to try to stop thinking about what they say honestly because if you let it go they will stop. Confident you is what people like and a smile goes a long way. Trust me trust yourself and the reason they bullied you was because they were jealous. And if I were you I would have turned the joke around on them. Cause they sound like jerks. And real friends stick by you for all your quarks so you can be yourself easily around them.
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