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hello internet,im a 13 year old girl and im bisexual.yes im sure,and im proud.ive always liked girls,but guys are attractive to me as well.my parents are divorced,and my mom is bisexual as well but never really dates or has sex with women.my dads a racist anti-gay kinda guy.only 2 people know,by bff who is also bi,and my friend who ive known forever.do not want to come out for a while.but my mom has obviusly thought i am gay before,and in a way i am.shes had her suspicians,and vervbalized them to mke in a delicate manner,and now i dont know if i should tell her or what soon.how can i bring this up?shes accepting as anyone i know,but still hard to talk to.i live in an anti gay town where it is NOT acceptable whatsoever.how should i bring this up?how can i ask anyone out if i love both sexes?how akward can i get?????? (link)
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Well, if you are too nervous to bring it up yourself, wait until your mother brings it up again and just tell her that you are interested in both genders. It's truly nothing to be afraid or ashamed of. Especially now a days since it seems that everyone is bisexual or bi-curious. I feel that it is a good thing to explore possibilities, because who knows, perhaps in the future you may end up with a preference of a certain gender over another. If she doesn't bring it up again, then take your time. There's no rush to tell her about your preferences/orientation. Regardless of what you tell her, she'll still love you, since you are her baby. You'll tell her when you are ready.
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