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Q: I cry a lot. Everything bothers me to the point where i cry. I cant control the tears by will so there must be another way. If anyone knows, please answer. Thanks
You have the same issue I also have,It's really hard not to cry when you are weak or you have a tendency to deppresion.Don't despair,just try to analyze the reasons why you cry so much;maybe you're lacking something really important in your life that kinda derives these stressful situations.I,for instance,tend to cry a lot and not only do I do it because something makes me feel sad,but also because something gets me angry too,and I came to the conclusion that the main reason of my tears is the lack of support of my family,I differ from them a lot,we are so different and they mistreat me because of that so that's the main reason of my tears,everything gets me angry or sad.The last straw,I have a lot of arguments with my boyfriend.So I recommend you to focus your attention on the basis of your tears,and then see what can you do about it,Trust me,once you have detected the weaknesses of your life,it gets easier to solve them.Hope it helps;)

I really appreciate your effort, but this answer didn't exactly help. You see I think you misread what I wrote. I wanted to know if you could control yourself when you're on the verge. Not how to find the source. I know what the source is. I just can't solve that problem. Thank you anyway. :) I am thankful for you.

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Don't follow any advice,no matter how good,until you feel as deeply in your spirit as you think in your mind that the counsel is wise...Take it easy...but take it!! My aim here is to give good advice,not gentle words,but what I think is best for you to do;)

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