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I am a member of a shoe club and I LOVE the shoes on the site but, most of the shoes on the site (at least the ones that I like) are 5 inches or higher with a large incline. Sometimes the platform might be 1.5 inches so that makes the incline less steep but when it's a 5.5 in shoe, it can still be very straining on the ball of the foot. Yet, I see women wear these shoes out to the club, out to the mall, etc. I don't know what they are doing to be able to wear these shoes for so long without causing blisters. Is there like an insole or something that they are putting in there or are they just wearing the shoes until the bottom of their feet callous over and there is just no pain anymore? I would love to wear these shoes but I really don't want to sacrifice the health of my feet to do it. (link)
One way to look at this question is:

who are you living for that you are willing to resort to an instrument of torture to please them? You are one special life. All human beings are. While I am a leg man and definitely like seeing women in a pair of flattering (which can be any height) heels, the hottest legs for me are bare legs with no shoes. But that's me. Nonetheless, who sent you the message that you're ugly if you don't put these things on? It's like the modern version of foot binding.

Please ladies, like yourselves and stop being so competitive with each other or so needy that you screw up or change a perfectly nice body part. It makes you look desperate and like you're trying too hard and that's pathetic.


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Wow. You guys are taking this question to a whole new level LOL You are not the only one, believe me, but I am far from a barbie doll. Trust me. hahaha I just like shoes and I DON'T want to torture myself to wear them, that's the whole point. That's why I want to know if there is an insole that these women are wearing or if they are just getting immune to pain. If that is the case then I am going to have to pass on the taller shoes.




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