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Q: So I recently started dating this guy. He is the sweetest guy I have ever met and is a true gentlemen. And I know that in a relationship he would be everything a good boyfriend should be. The only problem is i don't find him very attractive. Don't get me wrong when i first met him at a party i was defiantly interested in him. He is just a bit heavy set and not my type at all. I don't want to be shallow and i feel like i should give him a chance. But would it be wrong for me to lead him on if I'm not even sexually attracted to him at all?

thanks to anyone who takes a minute to read this and give me some advice :)
What've you got to lose? And who knows? Maybe you'll slowly realize how lovely he is on the outside as he is on the inside, but if it really bothers you that much, enough so that you just feel uncomfortable or not willing to put too much effort in, maybe it's best you guys don't date.

thank you so much ! that's good aadvice :)

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Hi hi hi! Call me Tsukuyomi. I'm an avid writer and reader with a peculiar taste in books and music. I love gay and supernatural books, such as the Archangel Academy series (which has both of those lovely genres!). I enjoy K-Pop and J-Pop music as well as the old time rock and roll. I'm really into researching mythology and religion. I'm open-minded and optimistic with a bit of sarcasm on the side, but I don't bite!

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