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I used to be a really depressed teenager, I had relationship problems, I still have family problems, I know how it feels to lose someone to suicide..... Lets just say I had a lot of problems with pretty much everything and I still have problems that I am still dealing with, but if someone has a question to ask me I will try my best to answer it, I will not judge you no matter how young or old you are.
We all have problems.
No matter how big or small.
Gender: Male
Location: Honolulu,Hawaii
Age: 16
Member Since: May 18, 2012
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Last Update: November 3, 2012
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Please help. I read that you know how to cope with suicide, but I know for sure I do not. My best friend broke up with her boyfriend. (she was forced by her father to break up with him.) And now she only talks to me and she's telling me she's cutting herself and considering suicide i'm really scared please help. (she is 14) I tought you could help because you are nice in your advice and your name even sounds nice :) lol any way, little details: she's kinda mad at me right now cuz I have a bf, and she has so far cut up the length of her arm but she hasn't said what with. (link)
Sorry for not responding for a while, but if it still helps then my advice to you is that you NEED to tell somebody, i can already tell that this situation is too much for you to handle by yourself.
Your best friend is going through something really tough right now, she is heartbroken for being forced to break up with her boyfriend by her dad, this situation i kind of understand because this has also happened to me when i was also 14 , i had i Girlfriend named Leilani and i really really liked her almost to the point of falling in love with her, we where together for almost a year until her parents found out we had to break up , i felt like dyeing because i couldnt be with her anymore i started talking to my school counselor about my situation and he really helped me get through my depressed state.
Your friend is at the point of cutting herself, and you cant really help because she is mad at you so you dont really know what to do. You need to tell someone about your best friends situation before she really really hurts herself, now dont go and tell someone who would yell at her because that wont really top her from cutting herself itll just make things worse, you should tell someone would would understand your friends situation and try to help her get back to her feet.
I hope your friend gets better.
KEEP IN TOUCH
- Sincerely David -


Rating: 5
thank you. it helped and shes recovering




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