Website:
got a problem? need advice? ask jane :)Gender:
FemaleLocation:
philippinesOccupation:
noneAge:
16Member Since:
June 6, 2012Answers:
53Last Update:
June 9, 2012Visitors:
3687Main Categories:
Love Life
Friendship
Abusive Relationships
View All
about
hey, im jane and i love helping people out with their problems even though sometimes i can't help myself and trust me i've been through a lot so i won't judge you with anything that you ask me. anyway i love giving advice to those people who need someone to tell they're problems to. so ask me a question and i'd be happy to answer. c:
advice
I'm seventeen, female, freshman starting college in the fall. Now, I am firm believer in "everything happens for a reason", all senior year, this boy who has a girlfriend and I had gotten very close. We had a class together first semester, all we would do is goof off, we were quite the fans of taking pictures of people who weren't paying attention and we would laugh at the for days. By the end of the semester, we knew our class was going to change and we wouldn't see each other everyday so we exchanged numbers. We text sometimes but not very often. I wouldn't think much of his, I guess "advances" such as me catching him looking at me a lot or not even being a part of a conversation I'm having yet still laugh at a joke I said, because I'm pretty sure he loves his girlfriend but sometimes he has me second guessing myself. Today, I had college orientation, low and behold, he is attending the same college I am. We didnt acknowledge each other all day until we were let go for free time to go to the party in the dorm basement, as he was walking to the party, he saw me pass him, walking to my room and called my name and motioned with his head toward the party. Going full circle, back to everything happens for a reason, I think both of us coming here while his girlfriend attends college five hours away, isn't coincidence. I know I shouldn't get involved because he is taken so please, no lectures on that but just tell me what you're thinking. Am I thinking to much into it or is he flirting? What do you think I should do if he makes more "advances"? What of he wants to hang out? Thanks.
Well maybe you should wait for a while and see what else he'll do. For now you could just stay the way you are and see where it goes. cause it might be a bad thing to get involved, cause as you said he has a girlfriend and i'm sure you wouldnt want to be the third party or anything, so just wait for the right time.
(Rating: 4) Thanks