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Q: Hi, I asked the question about my 27 year old "friend" and I'm 13. You might not remember me, but I know everybody is saying do tell my mom. But how would I tell her? And also she would yell at me for not telling her sooner ! I'm scared and uncomfortable not just pretending that I don't know. Plus, he's nice a lot of the time and buys me stuff I need or want . But sometimes, he freaks me out because he just pulled up porn on his computer when I was just sitting there. He also showed me his dildo , which I don't know why he does. The only reaction I ever give him , is ew! You're digusting! And when he isn't doing that, he calls himself my dad. Maybe to try to make me forget he ever said anything about liking me. I don't know how I could ever tell my mom though . But I feel like I can't really get away from him . Also whenever i'm with my boyfriend or another boy I like . He always criticizes them. Back in 2010, I used to live in the hotel he lived/ worked at, and a couple times when I went to go watch movies with him in his room, he sorta felt up my side of my leg and kept getting very close to my private area. But I kept getting up acting like I had to do something because last couple of times I tried to leave after he would kiss my neck out of the blue when he knew I told him stop. Well he wouldn't let me leave he stood in front of the only way out. So , that's why I didn't when he touched me because I thought he wouldn't hurt me if I went along with it... But I don't know why I stayed friends with him. Is there something wrong with me? Oh, if only I could tell this to somebody I know like my mom. Help,please
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okay listen. you have to tell your mom before he goes any further then touching you. its really dangerous just be like, mom i dont want you to get mad at me but i need help , then tell her that you need help getting away from the guy and that he makes you feel uncomterble , the only reason why he buys you things you want is so he can be like o well ill buy you this if you do this for me (and at times it can be sexual) i want you to watch a movie called trust and i want you to take some info on it , its about an online preadator that gets this 14 year old girl to meet up with him, if you watch itll open your eyes to do the right thing. just please be careful and if he ever tries to have sex with you try to get up and yell fire. btw i dont think your mom will yell at you cause hes a perv thats making you uncomterble. so just trust me on this.
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Okay I did . But im still getting yelled at for not telling earlier. I feel like I should be comforted more than badgered .but whateve
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im ariel, i LOVE giving advice about girl problems. im really easy to talk to and a really good listener, if you need help with anything im ALWAYS here (: , dont be afraid to maybe get something off your chest or ask about something you've been wanting to know (:
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Gender: Female Age: 15 Member Since: June 5, 2012 Answers: 19 Last Update: July 11, 2012 Visitors: 1229
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