Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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Alright so I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months. The initial feelings of infatuation have gone away and I kind of feel like we are drifting apart. I don't think he sees that there's anything wrong, but my emotions are everywhere.
He is extremely flakey and has been canceling plans a lot. It all started when he told me he was going to come to my high school graduation like a month ago but then said he was caught up in a golf game and didn't think he could make it. I was definitely crushed and didn't feel like he valued me enough to come and i told him I was really upset. I think i made him feel guilty because he ended up coming, which was nice but I wanted him to come because he WANTED to ya know? After that I noticed him flaking out on our plans a lot more and it is driving me crazy.
Also... I don't know in general i just feel like he is bored with me or doesn't value me as much anymore. I love him and I really don't want to break up but I just don't know what to do about these emotions. HELP! :O (link)
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You are right; when you are wit someone longer that 4 months the 'puppy' love disappears.
You need to figure out if he is worth working through; and by your last sentence, I can tell he is.
Talk to him about it. Good communication is always a plus in a relationship. Sit down and tell him how you feel. You NEVER ask a guy how he feels baout something; because boys don't feel-they think. So instead ask him what he thinks about it;
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Thank you so much! that was really helpful, I think he is worth it too! :)
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