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Q: 19/female. There's this guy, named Bryan who started talking to me over facebook. He went to my school, graduated 2 years before I did. We started texting and I began to like him, every time he'd text me he'd tell me to come cuddle, or that he wanted to give me a massage and that I was pretty every now and then he would mention my boobs or whatever but I figured thats every teenage boy. We'd always plan to hang out but we always ended up both getting to busy, but we'd still text. Well, there was one day that we both got time to chill so he came to pick me up, but it was really awkward. I got in his car and it was just silent the whole ride from my house to his. We get to his house and go straight to his room. I sat at the edge of his bed and we just sat there for a good 5 minutes before he asked me if I wanted a massage. I said no, because that was the first time for us to hang out and I figured that'd be awkward, he insisted on giving me a massage so I was like whatever and let him give me one, he told me to lay down, he stareted giving me the massage and the first 2 minutes were normal he was just rubbing my back, then he goes under my shirt, which I didn't mind to much either, but like 10 minutes into the massage he reached up my bra. I stopped him there because I didn't want things to get that personal on the first date, all I said was "woah, what are you doing?" he then stopped the whole massage and said he had things to do, and took me home. On our way back I asked him what he had to do and he said his mom was about to be home. We didn't talk the entire rest of the way to my house. When we got to my house, I said bye to him and thanked him for the massage. I haven't talked to him since. He hasn't texted me or anything. I want to text him, just to find out whats up, but i'm scared he won't reply, and i'm scared he's pissed at me. do you think he's mad that I didn't put out? I keep thinking that he thought I looked better on the internet than in person and that's why he quit talking to me? I just can't stop thinking about him though. I thought he was cute. Should I text him? or should I leave him alone, like I've been doing? if I do text him what should I say? why do you think he quit talking to me after we met?
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It's obvious what his intentions are. He wants to have sex with you and that's it. When you talk to a boy and he talks about your looks and your body and how he wants to feel on your body, those are red flags. He has no respect for you. Also, on your first date you went to his room. What does that say about him? When you permit a boy to treat you this way and allow him to feel on you even against your will it gives the boy a perception of you that is not good. You lead him to believe that you were willing to give it up. You must set up boundaries for yourself and not bring them down because a boy is cute. Remember, a relationship is not based off of sex. If all a boy can talk about is sex then he is not worthy of your time. The boy was just grooming you to get in your panties. He saw you wasn't giving it up so he moved to the next one. If not, he wants you to chase him so that he can have you in the palm of his hand.
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That was the best advice i've gotten, thanks! :)
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I'm a reconnection coach. I help women return and reconnect to their authentic inner essence so they can live a more fulfilled life. I am also a dedicated to helping other people, both younger and older, in regards to relationship issues. Relationships are not just limited to boyfriend and girlfriend but parent-child, brother and sister, etc.
I was a mother at the age of 17 years old so I understand the pressures and issues teenagers face. I have also been married 10 years and counting so I understand the struggles and problems of a marriage relationship. As a mother of four I can relate to the stress of raising children.
I am currently working on obtaining my degree as a marriage and family counselor.
I look forward to giving real and raw advice to you.
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