The question you ask is about others. The question you should ask is what is wrong with me? It is only you who can change and all else will fall into place. From your post it looks as if you are very insecure. When describing yourself you focused more on your outward appearance. This is but a small fraction of who you are. From what I hear from you, you are a loving caring individual. I believe you are an awesome friend and girlfriend. I also believe that you constantly try to help out your loved ones and make sure they are taken care of physically, emotionally, and maybe even financially. The investment you put into them may come across as being overbearing. You must learn to invest that time into yourself. Who are you? What do you want out of life? What makes you happy? Learn to be alone with yourself and embrace who you are. People will learn to appreciate you when you appreciate yourself.

Pretty true except I spend too much time by myself ..

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