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Whenever my boyfriend is stressed out, I make sure I am there for him 100% and I always talk to him to calm him down and offer to help. This usually happens when he's stressed over work or homework. Basically I'm really verbally involved and supportive. Whenever I get stressed, over homework or just for whatever reason at the time, he often just doesn't support me the same as I do, and that frustrates me so much because I'm looking for the same from him that I give him. Am I over reacting? A lot of times he gets silent and says, what would you like me to do? I dont know if I am wrong or not. 20/f (link)
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Personally, I don't think you're over reacting. All you are looking for is the same compassion as you give him when he is stressed, and there is nothing wrong with that. It would be great if he offered the same kind of support you give him. You could possibly talk to him about how it makes you feel. Maybe you guys can come to a solution. If not, than you must learn how to deal with your stress on your own. It may seem difficult sometimes, but he is won't support you, you have to support yourself. I hope I could help. Good luck :)
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