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Ok so yesterday, me and my boyfriend hung out in town. We have only been dating for about 2 weeks. Im 13/f and he's 14. We hug and occasionally kiss (mouth closed) and so we were cuddling and he kissed me and I kissed him back and he tried to make out with me but a few days ago I told him I wasnt ready. We were walking together last night and while he was walking me home, he stopped beside the abandon bowling alley and I went over and asked what he was doing and he said it was warming against the wall of the building. We stood there and out of no where, he said "I know you havent made out with anyone before but just do what I do" I said ok and so we started making out. Apparently Im good at it. He was pulling me closer and had his hands on my butt. I didnt know what to do. Is that a signal for something? He says that someday he wants to marry me. Adice? Opinions? (link)
I think you should go with your gut feeling, never do anything your not comfortable with and if he really loves you he'll understand and won't push you. However be careful because if you've only been dating him for 2 weeks then you don't want to give him all you've got because he might dump you once he got what he wanted which happens to a lot of girls. H seems like a really nice and sweet guy but also seems like he can easily manipulate a situation because he sounds like he was planning on making out with you that night even before he stood by the abandoned bowling alley and if he had his hands on your butt then it seems like he would be willing to have sex with you as well.


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Thanx,




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