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WingYan
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I'm a rather shy girl when it comes to stating how I feel or what I want. For a while now, I have been interested in bondage... Checking hentai sites and the like about it. There have been several occasions that I have attempted to tell my boyfriend that I would like to try it, as I have never before. I would very much like to, it's just, any time I try to bring it up to him, I get horribly shy or embarrassed and cannot bring it up.What should I do to either get over it, or are there ways of hinting to him that would be very clear that I'd like to try this? (link)
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I have been into bondage for a long, long time, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with asking a partner if they'll try it. If you and your boyfriend are really close, it'd be a good idea to talk about it with him and gauge his opinions. Yes, it will be very, very awkward; but the thing is, you never know if he might be having those same fantasies, too. Surprisingly enough, bondage is a very common sexual fetish, and it might not be as outlandish as you think. Basically, work up your courage and tell him how you feel. If he cares about you, he'll at least listen to what you have to say!
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Thank you. I was always under the impression that it was a more "taboo" type of fetish. I do feel less conscientious about it now.
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