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Q: Oh boy. I've got it bad!

Me and this guy have been friends for about 6 months now, and he is just the awesomest guy I know! A little over a month ago, I broke up with my old boyfriend, and this guy was there for me and took me out to ice cream and made me feel better! I knew I enjoyed hanging out with him, but it wasn't until my Spring Break that I really realized how much I cared for him.

Over spring break, I went home, and he stayed where we go to college. But he drove 4 hours to come to my home town and we had so so much fun! He even put his arm around me, so I started to feel like he liked me too.

Since we have gotten back, we have gone out every night. The way he looks at me is just the most amazing thing ever, and I swear I have never felt this good before. We sat in the car and he told me how he had so much fun with me over spring break, and that it was just the greatest day, and how awesome I was, and he even told me I was cute! I really started to like him at this point... He is seriously amazing!

This morning we got together again, and he taught me how to change my oil! It is kind of silly, but I just had the best time. He had never really broken the "touch barrier" before, but he like touched my hair, my hands, we laughed when I would do something stupid, and at the end of it all, he helped me get all cleaned up.

I guess the point of all of this is, I think I am falling in love with him, and up until this evening, I thought he was feeling the same way!

The issue is...he is going on a date tonight. With another girl. I mean, I have hung out with other guys during all this too, but I knew how I felt about them compared to Alex. So he is going somewhere with this girl, and now I just don't know. He really is a good guy, I know he wouldnt play me or anything, so I just need to know. Does he really like me, or am I somehow reading into this wrong?

Thanks for reading! I know it was long!!
You're not dreaming,though,this guy definitely likes you,and I'm sure he does not want to hurt your feelings,but this is something that regularly happens with most guys,they try to show that they are not that desperate and act as if everything was so easy and simple,even when they are deeply in love with somebody,they just try to show that they can handle it,they're a bit silly at this,try to let him know how you feel,I'm sure he already knnows, though,but make that clear to him,gentlemen do not exist anymore,so it's us who have to brake the ice,hope I've helped a little;)

I agree with everything except how you said gentlemen do not exist anymore! I know some amazing young men!

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Don't follow any advice,no matter how good,until you feel as deeply in your spirit as you think in your mind that the counsel is wise...Take it easy...but take it!! My aim here is to give good advice,not gentle words,but what I think is best for you to do;)

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