Im 13. Grew Up On The East Side Of Aurora.
Overall, I Give Good Advice.
Im Just Out Here To Help. Even If Im 13, I Give Good Advice. Trust Me On This One.
I've had a rough time growing up.
But Im Not A Bad Person.
I Like People And Hopefully People Like Me.
E-mail: gloriad78@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Aurora, Il
Occupation: Going To School
Age: 13
Member Since: February 11, 2012
Answers: 12
Last Update: March 10, 2012
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Hi! I'm michell. My Dad hates me. Recently he has been extremely cold towards me because he thinks I'm rude to him. I wasn't rude to him. He lives my sisters more than he does me and that hurts a lot. I don't know what I could have done wrong. Or why he can't forgive me for it. My relationship with my dad has always been bad. He never liked me and I never liked him. But recently he's been like talking to my sisters an ignoring me. When we go out together he jokes around with them but when I ask him a question he replies me with a single word. I don't know what to do anymore. I thought he will always love me despite my actions. But I am not so sure anymore. He hates me. I don't care about that part but it hurts when he shows his favoritism! (link)
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I feel you.
One thing you can do is write a letter to him. Tell him how you feel when he jokes around with your sibilings.
Tell him why he shows more love and respect towards your sisters.
Why does he treat you the way he does in general.
I don't think your actions should affect the love of a parents to a child. Forgiveness is the key to everything.
But, try the letter. But you have to to give it to him. Sit with him while he reads it. If he doesn't say anything, walk out and let him think and go try and attempt to talk about your feelings.
I've done this with my father. It helped.
But all people are different. Maybe he'll take it as a bad thing hut im sure he'll most likely take it in to heart and he'll change.
Good luck! I hope you try this.
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YOU ARE... AWESOME! That letter idea was great and it helped a lot! Thank you!
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