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Ok so I have a bf atm and we have been dating since November 4th. He is really sweet and amazing. I love him very much. But, this other guy started talking to me on MSN and Im kinda falling for him. The other guy confesses to me all the time that he loves me and wants to make out with me. My Bf and the other guy dont really get along. And my Bf doesnt know that the other guy talks to me. The other guy asked me that if he kissed me if i would kiss him back and i was weak with all the things he was saying to me like (hey babe, sup beautiful...) and sadly said yes. I feel bad about saying i would and cant come to tell my Bf about what i said. I want to be honest but I dont want him to break up with me, he's my first bf. Im scared and dont know what to do, I told the other guy today that if he kissed me i would slap him and he said "kissing you would be worth the slap". Problem is, i want to kiss him, I dont wanna cheat on my Bf at all! I dont wanna hurt my bf either. And another thing is that I dream about the other guy 24/7 :( I feel bad about the whole thing and wish i could just end my horrible life and this mess. Plz help me bc i love my bf but also like this other guy and kinda wanna kiss him, HELPP!! if no one does, chances are I'll be dead in a week. :'( (link)
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Hey! Wow, I'm in the EXACT same situation! I'm just sorta going along with my boyfriend who is sweet and lovely, and also flirting with this guy who has a crush on me... I don't know what to do either. I think if the feelings for the new guy develope further for you, you should go for him, because it isn't fair to your boyfriend otherwise. I don't agree with others who have said you're a bad person or anything-because I'm in the same situation and I know how it feels. We can't help our feelings. But weigh your options. Is your current boyfriend always there for you? Which guy do you trust more? Try not to make a rash decision or act too soon. Good luck! This is happening to me too right now haha!
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