Member Since: July 13, 2011
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Last Update: August 17, 2013
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Hey :D 13/F. I think my mom is over protective coz I am 13 I may not 1.have a BF. 2.Sleep at my friends house. 3.Go to the mall with my friends. 4.wear high heels. 5.go to a party. I know I should enjoy her but she is making me nuts. And I don't want to tell her. Plz help (link)
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Oh my god, my mom is super overprotective too! I'm 14 and am allowed to have a boyfriend- but I can only meet at a coffee shop with him or at one of our houses and stay in ONE place- we can't walk around or she will get mad. I'm also allowed to sleep at friends' houses, but I'm not allowed to go to the mall with my friends either! She never lets me do anything that involves freedom. I can't walk around anywhere with my friends or by myself. I can't see movies with friends. It feels like I can't do anything my friends do. It drives me nuts too because I feel like I should have the right to do these things. The best advice I can give is to talk to her- I know you don't want to, but how will anything get accomplished otherwise?- and hope that she changes her mind. Don't push for too much at one time. It sucks having overprotective parents, I know from experience. But hey, we'll be independent in a few years, do try to have as much fun within your mother's limits as you can. Sorry I can't help to much with this issue- it just stuck out to me because I feel the same way. Good luck!!!
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Thank you! i know you mean well and stuff but i guess i shoulda told you about the mall. i went to the mall with friends and i had sex in the bathroom and i got pregnant so i knwo why she doesnt want me to do stuff at the mall BUT that was YEARS ago when i was 11! so why doesnt she let me grow up now?
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