Member Since: January 24, 2012
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Last Update: January 29, 2012
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Hi I'm 16/f and I work with this guy who is one of my closest friends ever and one of the only people I trust. There's nothing I wouldn't do for him and he knows me better than most people, including my family.
Right well anyway a few days ago I was over his house and we kind of got with each other, which isn't a bad thing because we both we equally into it. As far as I'm concerned, if it never happens again I don't really care and if it does then it was a bit of fun. The only thing that I won't be happy with is if he makes it different between us as friends, cause I know for me it hasn't changed anything. In fact if anything it's made me more comfortable with him.
Anyway, I saw him yesterday and he didn't say a word to me... I've text him a few times and he replies short replies and just let's the convo die. This isn't unlike him normally, and he gets a bit depressed, but I don't know whether I should text him again? I miss not talking to him, we used to talk every day without fail, or am I just overreacting? I saw him this morning and everything was fine in person..
I'm not awkward about what happened at all, and I'm pretty much open to any way this could go in the future (though I'm a bit skeptical about a relationship, and I don't want to lose him as my friend). I'm just worried he'll be awkward about it. He's 19.
Any ideas what I should do? I miss talking to him :(
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Okay, well, he is a guy and guys get really weird when they are unsure of how their friend/latest hookup is feeling about things. He is probably sensing your anxiety. Guys respond to action over communication, so my advice is for the time being, say nothing. Just be. YOu may be sending out vibes without realizing it. You say you are not awkward about what happened at all, but you seem pretty tense and curious about what he is thinking. You may be reading more into it than is there because you are a girl and that is what we do:) I think you will find if you just act normal and don't make a big deal out of it, he will warm up. If you guys are going to get together again, it will happen naturally. If not, then you still have your friend. Text him and ask him to hang out and do something you would typically do, so he will see you are the same girl as you were before and chill. If you ever need to discuss it, it will come up on its own.
Hope it helps
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Thank you, youve really helped :) and I think I am looking in to it too much!
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