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Q: First I'm a girl, 21 years old. My ex and I were together for 3 years his mom and brother died and suddenly he didn't want anything to do with me which was understandable so I gave him his space. But then two months after I heard he was back with his ex. The same ex that he would constantly break up with to go out with me. Anyway, over a week ago he contacts me and I missed him so I replied. About 5 days ago he starts acting distant and I ask why and he said he was thinking of his mom and brother and his best friend starting trying to hook up with his ex, I tried to make him feel better and it worked because he seemed so happy for a day. I had a bad day too but I let my bad day go because I knew he needed cheering up, which I know he would never do for me. Then about three days ago we were talking and he just stopped, I tried calling no answer, call back, text, nothing, so i havent tried since that day. I know its not cause he has alot on his mind, i know him well enough to know that when he has problems he likes to have someone to share them with. He's done this before and it's usually because he's talking to someone else. I feel so pathetic because I keep falling under his little spell. He promised he wouldn't do this again and he did. What do I do to get over it? Like for good, I know I don't deserve this but how do I make myself stop being so in love with him?
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the best way is to stop all communication with him. that takes alot of strong will and perseverence.
i had the same problem (couldnt keep away from the ex that treated me bad) the easiest way is to distract yourself so you are too busy to answer his txts etc. it sounds to me like he runs to you whenever he feels down so you can comfort him. i can understand the guilt if you didnt after what hes been through, but surely he can talk 2 someone else. once u let him go he will go his own way and u will b happy
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Thank you, that's exactly what I needed to hear.
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i like to help people with problems by offering a logical approach (:
i dont like advice that is pure fantasy. we are in reality people (: and i feel sometimes i need other logical opinions on situations i cant deal with alone. im so happy i found this site. and ill try my best to help as best as i can. (:
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Gender: Female Location: new zealand Occupation: university student Age: 17 Member Since: January 16, 2012 Answers: 6 Last Update: January 20, 2012 Visitors: 2679
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