I have had my fair share of life's lessons and learned from them. I come from a family filled with divorce and family problems so I have a rough idea on how to personally handle things.
As for matters of the heart I can tell when a relationship is or isn't going to work. I understand the importance of communication and give and take after spending around two years in a relationship were I almost ran my ex boyfriend's household and looked after his siblings.
I understand that in certain parts of the world I am not yet of legal age to have a sexual relationship and that in some religious circles it is frowned upon for an unmarried woman to do so. What can I say? I have been in love and I have expressed that love but I have always been careful to avoid any trouble. I know how most contraception works and how the system works so don't be afraid.
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Ok so Im 12 and I currently have a wonderful boyfriend but he kinda flirts with my best friend. When Im aorund him he doesnt givve me any special attention though. He is my first boyfriend, and slow dance. Then theres this other guy who is a year older than me (13). He IM's me 24/7 he admitts to me that he kinda likes me but likes other people too. I kinda am falling for him and I dont know what to do. We were playing truth over IM the other day and he said that he reall wants to kiss me. I have never kissed anyone before but he has kissed alot of other girls. I asked him for one of my questions if he would ever kiss me while im still dating ___? and he said yes. I have something in side me that wants to kiss him but the other part of me doesnt because i already have a boyfriend. I dont know what to do because the other guy said 'It would be worth kissing you even though I might get slapped'. PLEASEE help, I dont know what to do :( (link)
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Ok first of all have a word with current boyfriend and his attentions towards your bestfriend as that is not a good start. The 13 year old sounds like he is attracted to you more but I think he is more of a physical person rather than boyfriend material. Boys at that age like to brag about how many girls they have kissed; as you haven't been kissed yet (don't worry that's perfectly normal, I didn't get my first kiss until I was about your age and one of my friends had finished school before she got her's.)
Basically sort out your boyfriend first before you make any decisions with the 13 year old boy, by all means go for it and kiss him but I advise caution.
Hope this helps.
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Thanx alot, i really like both guys though and you are right about the 13 year old he does brag about how many girls he has kissed and he keeps calling me beautiful and wants me to be his first kiss. Im really nervous though because my friends dont like the 13 year old at all. And he said he doesnt want to date me he just wants to kiss me alot and yea so umm thanx for the advice
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