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My whole life I've been very sheltered. I have very few friends and I'm not that close to my family. I had 4 girlfriends before I was 18. The longest relationship I had lasted almost a year. I've been single for 2 years now.
I'm a virgin, even though I'm great at pleasuring girls sexually in all other ways.
I've been told a lot that I'm quite attractive, with an athletic body. My family is very wealthy, and I have plenty of money. I have a genius IQ and am going to a university (still living at home) and studying in cognitive neurochemistry and biotechnology. I have traveled the world, and have great social skills, and can make people laugh really easily. But I just don't have any close friends. The friends I do have are all nerdy guys who have never touched women.
I don't really have any friends at college. I tried online dating, but it made me kinda feel like a loser because I cant find a girl in real life to be with, plus meeting in person for the first time might be awkward. The women I go out with have all been emotionally abusive as well, which makes me even more reluctant to really try to get into a relationship because I feel like I'm just going to be treated like I'm worthless for the 10th time.
I just don't know how or where to meet people to be honest. Would you consider online dating to be kind of pathetic? I don't like parties, not that I know enough people to be invited to them. I'm too young to go to bars. And I'm not interested in any school or community clubs.
People always tell me "just go out and meet people go to parties and stuff lol", but I'm just not built that way. Is there something wrong with me? All the girlfriends I have had I met in high school or driving school. Now that I'm not around girls that often, I have no chance of getting a girlfriend, never mind a good one.
What do I do? The only time I really feel happy and satisfied is when I have been in relationships, even bad ones. I'm happy with myself, I just hate being so alone all the time. (link)
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I'm going to say this, there is NOTHING wrong with being nerdy, or online dating. With online dating, you can hide the fact that you're wealthy. And with luck, find someone who will enjoy you for who you are, and not what you have. I can understand not wishing to go to parties to meet people.. To a point at least... I dislike big crowds, and in my honest opinion, meeting a girl at a party may not be a good idea.. Especially if you are still a virgin. Most party girls are... not very proper. But really it all depends on yourself. I suggest, learn to be happy and satisfied with yourself FIRST, THEN worry about dating someone. If you can't be happy and satisfied with yourself, neither will the person you try to end up with. Compatibility is VERY important in a relationship. I also, if I were you, would not let the potential girlfriend know that you are wealthy.. It could end up making the relationship a sad one. And as I have said before, online dating is NOT a pathetic way to find someone. You just always want to ensure that this someone is who they actually say they are. There are many sites to meet people, close and far away. Look at what your hobbies are. IE Video games, animes.. That type of stuff. Then check out online for any forums/chat rooms or w/e to talk to people who have the same interests as you do. Makes it much easier ^_^ If you're into certain things like comic books, mtg tournies, or the like (mtg = Magic the gathering
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haha Ive been to mtg tournaments, and the girls Ive met there are super cereal and play with such try-hard decks. anyways thanks for the advice. I like being a nerd ;)
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