Member Since: December 26, 2011
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Last Update: December 28, 2011
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I'm a junior in highschool, during the school week I take my best friend Jessica to school and home ai dont charge her gas money. At the beginning of the school year we would hang out on weekends and basically every chance we got so I didn't mind giving her a free ride. but, recently she has only talked to me when it's convenient for her. She doesn't text me on weekends, like i'll text her on friday and ask if she wants to hang out and she'll never reply but then she'll reply to my text messages that involve her getting to school that following monday. Right now, where on christmas break I haven't hung out with her once! i've texted her so many times and she doesn't reply, i'll get on twitter and see her tweets. If thats not being used, then I don't know what used is. When we go back to school, I want to tell her either you give me gas money or no ride for you, but I don't want to be harsh about it. I've been thinking this through and I honestly dont want to give her a ride period but since we have the same first period and the same last period it's kind of hard to get out of that. How can I tell her from now on I want gas money without being rude? and how can I confront her about how I am tired of her using me again without being rude? (link)
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I suggest that you approach your friend and say:
"Hey Jessica, you know, I was thinking and I think it's kind of unfair how I give you rides and everything but you only pay attention to me when it's about picking you up or dropping you off, I thought we were best friends? If you just want rides that's fine but I would would appreciate some gas money, I mean, I'm not your personal chauffeur!I give you rides, you give me money, no money, no ride, simple as that. Thanks."
Hope I helped! :D
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