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There's this guy, his name is Adam. I've really started to like him ALOT. he's so nice to me. Every morning i'll wake up to a "good morning gorgeous" text or something cute like "good morning sunshine. Thing is i'm to shy to make the next move. like if he doesn't text me we go all day with out talking. We've never actually talked in person, he used to go to my school until he moved and we have mutual friends on facebook. We've been planning on hanging out the next time he's in town, but I feel like my shyness will get in the way of everything. I fear rejection too, like I feel like he's just kidding when he texts me and tells me i'm gorgeous, alot of it has to do with my self esteem, and the fact that last guy that asked me out ended up doing it out of a dare then when I said yes, he said he was just kidding and it was a kid I really liked too. so now I feel like every guy that asks me out is going to do the same thing. I'm not the only girl that kid asked out though, it was a game between him and his friend, but I now feel like every guy plays that game.. weird I know! any who, i'm tired of my shyness getting and self esteem getting in the way of my relationships with people. What are some cute things I can do to show adam that I like him? and what are some signs to know if a guy really likes you or if he's just messing with your head? I don't want to set myself up for embaressment or rejection again! (link)
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To let you inside a guys head for a moment, when I say playful things to girls, especially things like "good morning dear" or "nite babe" I only do that because I want to be her first thought when she wakes up in the morning, and the last thought she has at night. Its a way of making me an important part of her day and life, even if its just indirectly. I don't think this guy would do that if he didn't genuinely like, or at the very least wasn't attracted to you. What motivation would he have to do that if he didn't like you? Don't expect guys to always be super aggressive and direct. We can be just as shy as girls are, its just less expected in society.
As for the last guy you dated, he was clearly immature and a jerk. I highly doubt he asked you out on a dare, it was probably just a convenient excuse to hurt your feelings or break things off.
Anyways, if a guy genuinely likes you, he may joke with you a lot, or say little teasing things just to put your attention on him and what hes saying. Also look for involuntary things, like smiles or laughs that you cant really fake.
If you want to show him you like him, smiling and laughing always do the trick, just don't overdo it, let it flow. If you like him, you wont be able to help but smile at him if he smiles at you. Also playfully hitting or tapping him on the arm after a joke or tease(not hard) is a clear sign to a guy that a girl likes him.
Remember, most signs of attraction are programed into peoples heads. If you can feel that he likes you when you're around each other, he probably does.
Good luck.
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