Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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me & my boyfriend brian have been dating for a month. My parents met him, and i've met his parents, and everything is good and well. before we started dating, i was a new friend of his, sense quite frankly he almost kinda scared me in his appearence. Soon i grew attracted to him as the beautiful person he really is.
anyway, as we were getting to know each other, he told me he was a virgin. And for some reason i found that totally adorable and cute and it made me blush.
And although is till find it so cute, i;m starting to worry the tiniest bit. Because i want to keep him a virgin for as long as i possibly can, when and if the moment comes to having sex, would i be in charge of that? i was mever a dominant person, im actually quite shy. so what am i supposed to do in this situation??
16/f 17/m
im not a virgin. (link)
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Girl! My boyfriend of a year and a half now was a virgin when he first got with me. Myself, I have had 2 other partners in the past; so I felt bad at the thought of taking his virginity and it not working out; because I know how much I regretted losing my virginity to the guy I lost it too.
Guys don't see it that way. I'm sure your boyfriend wants to lose his virginity; and the reason why he hasn't is cause he hasn't had the opportunity, or because of religion (depending what he believes in)
I thought it was absolutely adorable too when I found out about my boyfriend; and I also felt like you did about being in charge of it.
You let him know how you feel about it; and let him know that when he's ready to let you know, and you can judge from experience if the time is right; becuase you've been there and done that.
You know, people say Virgin's are bad in bed because of being inexperienced; thats not true. My boyfriend was the best I ever had; I was so shocked with how well he was at it! It's kind of like instinct; in a way. YOu may just need to communicate wiht him and let him know what it is that you like, because he may not hit that right spot!
If you have anymore questions, please inbox me! I'm here to help!
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