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I'm a third year psychology student and i love giving advice to those who are in need of it but if you ask me a stupid question you should expect a stupid answer i love hanging out with friends and socialising i can be really conceited at times and if you get on my bad side you might wanna sleep with an eye open!

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Hey, I am a 17 year old female. I have a 17 year old male best friend. We have been best friends since the third day of third grade. I love him like a brother because that is how I see him. Everybody else, however, tells me daily that him and I are going to get married. That "everybody can see that we are in love except for us." I have read numerous places that a boy and a girl can not be best friends because of sexual tension. Either the girl wants to have sex with the boy or the boy wants to have sex with the girl. I completely disagree, my friend and I aren't like that.

What do you guys think? Can a girl and boy be best friends and that's it? (link)
I am currently experiencing the same thing that you are and its really annoying that people can't mind their own business, but there's nothing wrong with being with friends with somebody of the opposite sex, some people find it more comforting and have a better understanding, there are cases where the friendship leads to abit of romance but there's nothing wrong with that, you're partner would be somebody you trust, but a boy and a girl can certainly stay just friends don't bother about what people say, as long as you know where you two stand


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