I have had my fair share of life's lessons and learned from them. I come from a family filled with divorce and family problems so I have a rough idea on how to personally handle things.
As for matters of the heart I can tell when a relationship is or isn't going to work. I understand the importance of communication and give and take after spending around two years in a relationship were I almost ran my ex boyfriend's household and looked after his siblings.
I understand that in certain parts of the world I am not yet of legal age to have a sexual relationship and that in some religious circles it is frowned upon for an unmarried woman to do so. What can I say? I have been in love and I have expressed that love but I have always been careful to avoid any trouble. I know how most contraception works and how the system works so don't be afraid.
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Hey I am 18/F
Well I haven't been a virgin since I was fourteen, I've had about three sexual partners all close boyfriends, I've been checked for stds and I am clean, I've been single for a while now so I've started to experiment with just myself, I've never had an orgasm before, I've had to fake it, sex never even felt especially good, sometimes it did, but not really. Well, I've been touching myself lately, and sometimes it feels really good but in a strange way, I like how it feels but for some reason I just have to stop like it's too much, I've tried to overcome it but I can't, sometimes I get really close and I feel like I am going to orgasm, but then I just pull my hand away and I can't understand why, is there any reason why? And if so is there a way to overcome this and reach my goal?
tips would be appreciated!! (link)
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First of all I am not going to judge the age of losing your virginity, every girl is different regardless of laws in the world because all girls develop differently at different ages.
Relax for a start, I had the same problem. Sex with my ex was great but it wasn't until I met my current boyfriend when I was over 19 years old did I have my first full orgasm and I agree with you on the feeling. I have lost count how many times I pushed my boyfriend away or off me and let me tell you that is quite something as he is 14 years older than me and I am only little.
I guess part of the reason I had my reservations was because I thought 'what if I am one of those girls who make a mess?' And I really wished that I could go all the way solo just to prove that I didn't.
For me, I overcame my anxiety because my partner understood and we had a connection. I just had to trust him and let the feeling take over because it wasn't like there was anyone else to judge me.
It is a good feeling when you do, I guess as you are on your own you will just have to tell yourself that it is going to be ok, play something that will relax you or get you in the mood on your ipod or whatever.
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I've tried relaxing, It makes me feel better knowing quite a few people actually have this overwhelmed feeling when they do it. Hopefully I can relax and over come it. thanks! (:
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