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Q: Hey Im 16 and a senior in highschool. I met this guy in an interschool competition. He's the same age but is a senior in some other school. We started talking after the competition and became good friends. We have gone out on three dates till now. And yeah, we have kissed each other and made out a little. We cannot resist each other at all. And hence the makeouts were a mutual desicion. I am falling for him. But the problem is that even though he says he is falling for me, he keeps on telling me he cannot date me cause he's a bad guy and he cares for me too too much to hurt me. He says he is not one of those dateable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me.That would hurt me and he doesnt want to do that! He hasnt had a past record of cheating or anything it's just that he tells me he wants to be sure before he asks a girl out that he will be completely loyal to her and not flirt around with other girls. He also liked this girl a year back and he says he feels guilty that he got over her and fell for me! But when we meet we actually act like we are dating, cause he gets me stuff, he tells me he loves me, we hold hands. we actually act like a couple in love. we also talk all the time. I dont know what to do. Because I really want to be with him. But cant figure out how to make him ask me out? and if he is really a bad guy? HELP.
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WAKE UP! He is telling you that he is not ready for a relationship! That's a good thing. Can you imagine if he lied to you and then cheated on you. Why go through all that! Don't you think for one second that he doesn't think your worth it! But....he's young and dumb and that's what young men do at that age. They want to see how many young ladies that can get to like them then they can be "THE MAN". It doesn't mean your that your the man it means your still a BOY. TAKE YOUR TIME! He may not even be the right guy for you. Enjoy being young and being friends with everyone for right now. When he's ready and you're ready then let him find you. What I mean by find.....you will be way out of his ledge. I think your worth so much more then just a SECOND look! Don't you!
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