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I am student attending college and I am majoring in Journalism and Print Media. I also love to help people because it is my nature to help people; it is a gift that I have inherited from my parents. I feel good helping people no matter what the circumstances are. I love people; I think we should all help each other out because we are all family. If you ever have any questions about anything, I will try my best to help you out in any way I can. Please feel free to email me at milziefrommel@live.com.
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17, female. I know this guy, he can be D, who is working his way to the top trying to get famous. He has a record deal and an agent and a manager, he does concerts and he's working on a tour as we speak. Now, my best guy friend, he can be N, loves singing, he is putting on a benefit for his friend who has cancer. It's at a bowling alley, so he will be singing for all the bowlers and stuff. It's gonna be fun no matter how lame I am making it out to be right now. I had gotten D to agree to come and perform with N because he has wanted to work with D ever since I showed N the D's videos on YouTube. D said that it would be awesome and he would love to do it. He would pay the 25 dollars to give to the friend of N's for her medical expenses and he would sing with N and bowl with me and it was supposed to be a great time. My mom talked to D a few days ago and he played completely stupid and asked when it was, he already knew, and when my mom told him the date, "his light bulb came on" and he realized he needed to be in LA to record for his CD for 15 days. I want to know how you can just magically forget a 15 day trip to your favorite place to work on your first ever CD that will promote your first ever tour... it seems fishy to me. It also seems fishy to me that my friend asked D if he could perform at her birthday and he said he will but it will cost her money. He is charging that girl to perform, yet he didn't charge me. I know that there is a difference between a birthday and a fundraiser event but for the fundraiser, he was paying money to perform and for the birthday he is charging to perform. To me, a performance is a performance because he has to plan set lists and practice and take time out to meet with the event planner.I know D from church and Sunday at church, he sat in the row in front of me and I counted that he turned around 11 times to look at me, he would act like he was looking at the back doors but every time, he peeked out of his peripheral vision to see me. Now, D knows that I am mad at him so he messaged me and said that if it was possible, he would fly across the country to come back and perform only if it is three hours because he knows how happy it would make me. I find that to be total bullshit.

My mom is adding all of this stuff up to magically believe that he has a crush on me. He bailed on the benefit because he was told that my best friend who is running it, likes me. Him looking at me all of church. Him saying what he did.

But, the fundraiser is not about me, it's about the poor friend that has cancer and I thought being the Christian man he is, would cancel all things to be there for her and do this for my friend.

I don't know what to think and I am so confused. If anybody can read between the lines or think of anything, any help would be appreciated in trying to figure out what's behind all of this craziness. Thanks! (link)
Your mom might be right and I think you should consider all the possible signs that he gives you like staring at you a lot, being super nice to you, and other crush stuff. You can also try to ask him or ask him to explain things that he says or does to you that you do not understand.


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:/ we've never talked face to face..




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