Member Since: October 8, 2011
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Last Update: November 1, 2011
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Hi. I'm a 23-y-o, straight female. I've had the same best friend since 3rd grade (15 years). She often brings up sexual topics in a way that bothers me. I know I'm too much of a prude, so sometimes I feel like I shouldn't be bothered.
I wouldn't mind talking about it so much if she and her BF were having issues or she needed advice on something (not that I could provide it). Usually, though, she's just bragging, pretending to hit on me (we're both straight girls), going into way too much detail or making crude jokes. This happens almost every time I hang out with her and I tell her to stop and that it bothers me and nine times out of ten, she'll do it again a few minutes later.
Sometimes, when we hang out with her BF (I'm single so I'm often the third wheel) she touches him inappropriately under the table or when she thinks I'm not looking, but she isn't good at hiding it. Only, she recently told him that she's an exhibitionist. I think she's using me as an audience for her sexual gratification and that she wants me to see.
I've told her to stop so many times and she just ignores it. Is this sexual harassment? It bothers me so much that I'm not sure I want to be her best friend (or a friend at all) anymore. Is this worth ending such a long friendship over? (link)
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I think you are missing the main point. I don't think it has anything to do with your past. It's about your Future with Her. She obviously is Bi and wants to try a Threeway or One on One with you. If you don't feel attracted to her just tell her. Otherwise, try it once. Life is short.
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She tells me she doesn't want to have sex with me. Anyway, I've told her that I'm not attracted to her many times by now. Doesn't stop it.
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