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I'm Male/16. I'm in 11th grade. I feel like I have lost my motivation. In 9th grade I was really motivated, I actually did my work with no problems, I slept fine and kinda talked to more people. Now, I just don't feel like doing anything, I always feel tired and sluggish. I miss work or hand it in late. I can't sleep right and I don't talk to much people anymore. It seems like everything is pointless nowadays, nothing is fun or exiting like it used to be. I miss feeling good about everything. I have no idea what's causing this but its pissing me off. What's wrong with me? It feels like I'll never progress and enjoy things again. I'm really tired and disapointed with myself. What is it? (link)
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Maybe you should talk to a doctor. I know it doesn't sound like a lovely answer... but it might benefit you more than you think. You could be depressed. Think back to when this started... was there a specific trigger? Did you lose some friends, take harder classes, have a rough break up? Maybe your ego is in need of a little boost. Try a new sport-- it's great for confidence and helps you meet new people. I always disregarded that advice but when I finally did join sports I wish I had started earlier. If sports aren't for you, think about a club or a job. If you already have a job... maybe it's time for a new one.
As for the sleep, you're probably in a vicious cycle. Try taking a melatonin vitamin at night. It makes you sleepy because you may be missing serotonin, which you receive from the sun during the day & in turn helps you sleep at night. The vitamin will compensate. Once you get in a routine of sleeping better, it will probably do wonders for the rest of your problems! Trust me-- I've been there.
Maybe God is preparing you for something... pray & ask what He might have in store for you. He had big plans for you, you know. :)
I'll keep you in my prayers.
Much Luck & God bless!
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